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Good Boundaries and Goodbyes: Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are

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She provided many helpful analogies for why this is good practice, such as the fact that you wouldn't give just anyone the keys to your home and if people who you did trust to have the keys were using them in a way that was not intended, you would take them away. Lysa TerKeurst understands this dance with dysfunction and wants to be your insightful, compassionate friend who will teach you that it isn't unloving to set a boundary, and it isn't unchristian to say goodbye.

Along the way, you'll also receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa's Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book. From what I understand, only a handful of years have passed since Terkeurst’s traumatic marriage experience and divorce. TerKeurst also provides scripture verses to back up the fact that we can still be a Christian, and have boundaries in place.

Be equipped to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive and is no longer sustainable. and said that when someone violates her boundaries, she can act "in opposite ways of the woman I really am. PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

This eye-opening book will be refreshingly helpful in giving you the biblical wisdom and confidence to set boundaries you can keep, communicate them, and finally see them working in your life.

And when they chose to eat from the tree that God asked them not to, he had to inflict consequences for their actions. My heart broke for her a bit as I read about her divorce, especially after reading the book where she had reconciled with her husband. by Lysa TerKeurst | Nov 17, 2022 | Blog, Good Boundaries and GoodbyesDo you have a relationship in your life where you know something is wrong, but you can’t figure out what to do? It’s my responsibility not to let another’s personal actions and expectations wear me down to the worst version of myself. It’s something many of us find extremely uncomfortable talking about but it’s what so many of us desperately need to actually win in our relationships.

Or, I've tried everything to fix this relationship but nothing is working--I fear I'm becoming someone I don't even like? So many good nuggets and quotes that I really needed to hear and I'm sure I will again in the future. Terkeurst does not present any false information; however, her interpretation of the Christian scriptures is sometimes questionable. If you're ready to gain the biblical wisdom and confidence to finally set boundaries you can keep, let Good Boundaries and Goodbyes be your new go-to guide.

Ebooks fulfilled through Glose cannot be printed, downloaded as PDF, or read in other digital readers (like Kindle or Nook). Every relationship mentioned was a friendship or her husband, so they weren’t even family members, coworkers, or someone else that appeared in her life without a decision being made on her part. even though i didn't relate to all of the situations she was talking about, there was still so much to take from this. If you are a fan of Lysa Terkeurst and of self-help books (in this case spiritual), and are in need of setting some boundaries, then I definitely recommend reading this book. She has scripture to back up everything and as she says in her podcast doesn’t “tell you what to think, but gives you a lot to think about”.

If you ever feel as though you're stuck between being taken advantage of by those you love most or shutting others out to avoid being hurt, Good Boundaries and Goodbyes will provide both the practical and biblical guidance you need to operate in the most loving place, with healthy boundaries instead of either extreme. Some of the info I read in nonfiction books is quickly forgotten, but this one will be kept close by because I will be revisiting its pages many times as I apply these practices to my own life. A book containing valuable principles I look forward to putting into practice to improve my relationships. I only mean that someone could argue for a compelling interpretation that contradicts what Terkeurst sometimes.If you have well meaning, loving people in your life that are trying to point out how a boundary you set might be an overreaction or not appropriate for the situation, might it be a good idea to consider what they have to say instead of assuming they're the problem? Good Boundaries and Goodbyes” is about learning how to set boundaries for yourself without feeling like a bad person for doing so.

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