Submissive Slave Training: A Master’s Guide To Training His Submissive For BDSM Role-Plays (BDSM academy series Book 2)

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Explain that during this discussion it is important for them to speak their mind, in an authentic and truthful fashion, and that you are there to listen and not judge whatever they say. Slave training in BDSM is an important part of the master and servant or dominant and submissive power exchange relationship.

Before we have sex, my slave should stand before me naked for one minute to allow me to admire her body. You’ve learned how to decide what style of BDSM slave is right for you, and what your ideal relationship dynamic is. Duties and responsibilities. What do you expect your slave to be responsible for? What are their duties in the relationship, around the house, when you’re in public, etc. Sometimes you’ll have a bratty slave on your hands. It’s rare, as most brats prefer a DDLG style of relationship, but it happens.training is everything that you do for your Dominant when directed to do so in a certain manner? Take a basic request of making coffee or tea. If you are told the specific way your Dominant takes their coffee or tea and then proceed to do that every time it is requested you are being trained to make his or her coffee or tea. There is a really big hype about training when there doesn't need to be. Every single behavior change or attitude change is part of your training. I bet that there are things that your Dominant would consider training that you don't. Are there actions or activities you do that are now a habit that wasn't before? Can that be attributed to training? Submissive women often LOVE being spanked or physically punished, especially if she’s a pain slut. A punishment is not meant to be enjoyable, otherwise it’s a funishment. Don’t make the mistake of giving them a funishment. A submissive craves structure, guidance and instructions. Giving your slave tasks is very important in slave training. They can be tasks for cleaning, grooming, or dress that pleases you. It can be about errands or housekeeping or ways to service you sexually.

If you have a 24/7 Master/slave dynamic then a lot of the time will be sitting around doing usual couple stuff.When in private or at kinky parties you can opt for a more traditional slave collar. They are typically heavier, chunkier, made of metal, and may have a leash attached. here are standard BDSM hand signals for listen, sit on floor, come here, remove your clothes, leave the room, etc. Your slave training may include personal signals that you have created together, that only you and your slave understand. As much as I prefer rewards for disciplined action, I will punish when an action, or even moreso its motivation, is frequent or egregious.

Using BDSM hand signals is another important aspect of BDSM slave training. It is a kind of sign language with gestures and finger positions that communicate wordlessly. They are useful for communicating when the room is noisy or when you are in sight but not in hearing. Yes, you heard me right. Just because you’re a dominant doesn’t mean everything is about you and you can forget about the other person (read up on how to be a Dom). As their Master, you are obligated to take care of your slave. Slave positions are poses your submissive will take when you give a command. The number and type of positions you want to train your slave to do is up to you.

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Be consistent in practicing dominance. ( I find this very important – this one is listed two times.) Slave training fosters clear boundaries and roles, encourages healthy communication, establishes rules, establishes trust, and helps both dom and sub fulfill their psychological and sexual needs. Slave training is a profound process that deepens intimacy and fulfillment between a couple. Physical punishment. Spanking, caning or whipping could be used. Having your slave kneel on rice for ten minutes. Tell her to sit on the stairs in silence until you call her. Have her stand in the corner, nose against the wall. Mistakes to avoid Slave training is also useful to determine boundaries and hard limits. During the training, the submissive may uncover things she doesn’t want to do and conversely stuff she really enjoys doing.

There comes a time when your slave isn’t performing to your high standards and needs to be reprimanded. How do you punish your slave in an effective way? What are slave punishments? Obedience as a tool is also somewhat obvious, at least to most if not everyone doing this. A slave who becomes habituated to obeying some commands is much more likely to obey other commands which are similar or perhaps very different from the commands they have been obeying. Submissive poses are simply ways to position the body to show your willingness and readiness for the master’s next commands. They are also aesthetically beautiful and provide a visual delight for the dominant. Display. The sub must perform a series of positions one after the other, only moving on to the next one after approval of their Master. These positions are for the Master to enjoy looking at his slave’s body. A routine might look like this.Many dominants or couples come up with specific, personal, custom positions that are unique to their relationship or preferences. Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Low Condition (<30) - Basic Obedience Training (Partial) Success: Bimbo (Bim) - Seductive (Sed) - Slutty (Slt) - Weak (Wea) - Educated (Edu) - Basic Lesbian Training (Partial) - Sex Addict (Sex) - Faith: The Goddess Shallya (F:Sh) I will take the time to communicate my thoughts and feelings, preferably in written form, so He knows which parts of my service I enjoy and which areas can be improved. Just because they are your slave doesn’t mean you can get them to do everything you want them to do.